About Dimitri
Psychotherapist, Relationship Specialist, Author of The Fierce Feminine Mindset for Women
About Dimitri
Dimitri is a London-based psychotherapist and relationship expert with over 17 years of experience helping women and men transform their love lives. With roots from the Greek island of Ithaca—symbolic of returning home, regaining oneself, or renewal after struggle—and raised in South Africa, his early life was shaped by rich cultural contrasts and powerful personal influences. Chief among them was a fiercely intelligent and powerful Greek mother who was forced to navigate a deeply patriarchal society.
Watching his mother face a world in which women’s worth was often overlooked left a lasting mark. Even as a boy, Dimitri noticed the quiet sacrifices and unfair expectations placed on women. This sparked a lifelong curiosity about love, power, and why something as fundamental as relationships could feel so broken.
After earning a Psychology Honours degree from Birkbeck, University of London, and an MA in Psychotherapy and Counselling from Middlesex University, he trained at the Minster Centre, becoming a UKCP-accredited psychotherapist. Over time, a clear pattern emerged: clients—both women and men—came to him confused and frustrated, wondering why real love still felt out of reach despite doing everything ‘right’; everything ‘expected’ of them.
Dimitri’s fascination with dating psychology, combined with a Buddhist-informed outlook which constantly inspires him to find new ways of bringing value to the world, led to The Fierce Feminine Mindset—which he developed to help women reconnect with their feminine core and attract love which can offer the joy they deserve. He witnessed firsthand how both men and women get stuck, unable to communicate their true needs, causing heartbreak and confusion. This inspired a fresh, clear approach to love.
He also developed a programme for men, to counter-balance his offering for women. There can be no Yin without Yang as both sides of the relationship need attention. The True Masculine Mindset helps men connect to their authentic masculinity through embracing their vulnerability. Both mindsets come together in harmony in the Relationship Recharge for couples where the Fierce Feminine meets the True Masculine – the ultimate healthy relationship couple.
In 2013, Dimitri launched his Fierce Feminine Workshops—safe spaces where women could embody this mindset in real life. The results were clear. The Fierce Feminine Mindset book, the first in a series, is dedicated to women searching for the right man. It’s a guide to reclaiming love on your own terms—by being who you really are, not who other people say you should be. Books for men and couples are coming soon—because it's clear to Dimitri that they need them too.
The True Masculine Mindset workshops for men help them connect with their inherent masculine power through accessing their vulnerability, without judgement and with support from like-minded men. Men struggle to define their masculinity and understand who they are so it’s vital they feel safe and able to express themselves.
The Relationship Recharge for Couples is where the Fierce Feminine meets the True Masculine – the ultimate healthy relationship couple. A relationship is all about emotional growth and will therefore trigger both parties, so it’s vital that each person works on themself to be able to experience the joy of their relationship.
Relationship programmes
The Fierce Feminine Mindset for women
Awaken and let go of your negative behaviour patterns
The True Masculine Mindset for men
Harness and balance your innate masculine and feminine qualities
Relationship Recharge for couples
Learn the secret to creating and maintaining a successful relationship